Focus Is a Fragile Superpower

I used to think focus was just about self-discipline. Something I could force if I really wanted to.

But over time, I’ve realized that focus is less about willpower and more about environment, boundaries, and energy.

The truth is: focus is fragile, and in the world we live in, it’s constantly under attack.

When I’m Focused, My Studio Thrives

When I’m in flow, I can build a website, rewrite an entire strategy deck, and still have creative energy left to dream up new ideas.

But when my focus fractures, it shows up everywhere:  in the copy I rewrite three times, in design decisions I second-guess, in the projects that take twice as long as they should.

And the wild part is that I usually give my focus away for free.

One Slack ping, one email, one “quick” Instagram check… and there goes the deep work window I blocked off for the morning. 

Running a business online means my attention is always up for auction. Unless I decide it’s not.

The Cost of Constant Access

It hit me one day: my focus isn’t just slipping away. I’m leaking it.

Not because I don’t care. But because I haven’t been protecting it like it matters.

And it does matter. It matters a lot.

Because without focus, even the best ideas die in my drafts folder. Even my clearest goals fade into noise.

So now, I treat my focus like it’s currency, and I’ve started guarding it more intentionally.

Here’s what’s been helping me:

How I Protect My Focus

I plan around energy, not hours

My creativity peaks early, so I block my mornings for deep design and writing work. No meetings, no emails. The afternoon is for clients, calls, and admin.

I don’t leave my attention up for grabs

If I don’t control where my attention goes, someone else will. I close the tabs, mute notifications, and even hide my inbox when I’m in creation mode. Focus is the new luxury and I build my environment to reflect that.

I set limits on what I consume

Every newsletter, post, and notification takes up space in my head. If I’m not intentional, I fill my mind with noise before I even sit down to create anything of value.

I filter what earns my attention

Every podcast, post, and DM competes for mental space. I’ve learned to curate what I let in: fewer gurus, more grounding.

I remind myself that distraction is expensive

Every interruption costs more than it seems. A single distraction can derail an hour of momentum, and that hour could’ve been the thing that gets a project across the finish line.

It’s a Practice, Not a Perfect System

I still get distracted. I still fall into the trap sometimes. But the goal isn’t perfect focus. It’s intentional focus. I want to spend my best energy on what actually matters to me, not just what’s loudest or most urgent.

The world isn’t built to protect your focus. That’s your job.

And if you don’t guard it, you’ll lose it. One ping, scroll, or tab at a time.

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— Melanie